Fractures
This whole fucking thing is so sad. It’s not my circus and these aren’t my monkeys, but since I’m in…
Tag: introspection
I Don’t Really Like Spunk
Content Notes: I’ve written a bit about disordered eating here, so you may want to skip this one if that’s…
Other Women
I’m bisexual, but women make me anxious I’m sexually attracted to women as well as men. Not every woman of…
BDSM: behind the sex mask
Until very recently, sex for me had never been an act of intimacy. Quite the opposite in fact, I used…
Posh Boy
On the morning after another depressing Tory election win, I am reminded of a past encounter with a member of…
Freedom: a short poem
I said “I want to know freedom” so I took down my fences (the ones that kept me safe) and…
Me, You, Us
You’re taught shame from an early age; ‘nice girls don’t’ but ‘boys will be boys’. Your chest starts to swell…
Making an impact
A fun and educational evening of hitty things
Let Sleeping Zebras Lie
My subconscious frequently horrifies me. I dream luridly and in colour, always in the first person. Sometimes I’m not me…
Never assume
Some thoughts on consent in BDSM and sexual relationships