Food 4 Thought Friday

Boundaries

Privacy; what does it mean and what is it for?

Until very recently, sex for me had never been an act of intimacy. Quite the opposite in fact, I used…

I said “I want to know freedom” so I took down my fences (the ones that kept me safe) and…

You’re taught shame from an early age; ‘nice girls don’t’ but ‘boys will be boys’. Your chest starts to swell…

My subconscious frequently horrifies me. I dream luridly and in colour, always in the first person. Sometimes I’m not me…

Some thoughts on consent in BDSM and sexual relationships

How I learned to appreciate my body; the sexy selfie